Saturday, May 24, 2014

"Jom Kahwin?"

Ada satu masa, aku tanya dekat kawan aku yang dah nak kahwin, " Babe, aku selalu terfikir macam mana engkorang boleh terfikir that is the right time to get married.  Tak takut ke?"

" Macam mana apa maksud kau? Bila lelaki tu lamar kita lah.  Then baru kita setuju ke tak."

" And how do you say yes?"

" Bila kau suka dia. Dan bila kau dah tanya dekat parents kau and dorang semua cakap ok."

" No. Maksud aku, dekat lelaki tu sendiri macam mana?  Macam mana dia boleh tetiba jumpa kau cakap 'Jom Kahwin' tu..."

" Hmmm.  aku tak tau lah part tu.  Sebab selalunya perempuan tunggu lelaki lamar baru go on. Hahaha."

" Nget!"



So, after that day, I have asked to several man the same question and the answer was quite blurry but it explained a lot.

Man are looking for someone they comfortable to do & to share many things with her. Cause she is the one that will stay beside him no matter what for the rest of their marriage life.

and to ask your hand for marriage is a REALLY BIG THING for man.  it could take forever, no one knows.

So please, don't pressure them ok.  Kesian tak dengan abang sayang awak semua kalau asyik tanya pasal kahwin.  Just prepare yourself to be a good muslimah, a wife, a mother, and friends sebab kalau tak ada jodoh dengan abang sayang tu maybe Allah lorongkan jodoh yang lebih elok untuk kita nanti.  InsyaAllah.



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